At least when I call someone out on their BS, I don’t call them names.
And if I do, it’s subtle, as if an impression. It’s vague. Clarification is needed. I have some decency even if I’m telling you something you don’t want to hear.
Two days ago, a long time online friend did not employ any subtlety. Because I didn’t entertain her knee-jerk reaction to a joke she took far too personally, she called me names.
Because I didn’t validate her in the exact way she saw worthy, she burned a bridge – completely.
Apparently I’m a narcissistic, self-aggrandizing twit.